Five Silly Ideas That Can Hurt Your Marriage Relationship

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Some of the old notions about marriage relationships, often stated as wise truths by our grandmothers, are still floating around and are still doing damage. One of them is never go to bed angry.

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DUI – Please Don’t Drink and Drive

by Dr. Neill Neill

September is National Alcohol and Drug Addiction Recovery Month. As I pause and look back over the alcohol-related deaths and injuries of people I’ve known, I feel sad that it is still happening. A driver’s speed with alcohol took our mother away from my three younger brothers and me when I was 16. She left the house. Within ten minutes there was a knock at the door. An uncle uttered the simple words, “Doreen is gone.” Video: “Everbody Hurts.”

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Respect Begets Love and Love Begets Respect

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When couples are fighting and alienating each other, the disconnect in the relationship often has to do with love and respect. I have seen this many times in my work with couples. I also recognize it as I reflect on my own life.

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To Celebrate your Life is to Expand your Life

by Dr. Neill Neill
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Why celebrate?

If you fulfill an intention, if you achieve something, and then you celebrate what you have accomplished, you are acknowledging to your center and to the universe what you have done. This tends to anchor it as real.

Too often, when we achieve something, we forget, or neglect out of false modesty to celebrate and anchor what we have done. Instead, with no change in pace, we just whimper, “Next!” We are left with the feeling we haven’t got anything done.

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Awaken Your Fifth Level of Competence

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The familiar four levels of competence are unconscious incompetence, conscious incompetence, conscious competence and unconscious competence. However, there is a fifth level of competence. In what areas of your life have you reached this fifth level?

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