Comments on: Domestic Abuse and Violence Awareness http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence-awareness/ Marriage, alcoholism, parenting, grieving, alcohol abuse, alcoholism help and living with an alcoholic Wed, 18 Aug 2010 02:46:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Dr. Neill Neill http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence-awareness/comment-page-1/#comment-100945 Dr. Neill Neill Wed, 22 Oct 2008 13:13:42 +0000 http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence/#comment-100945 Hi Mati, Hash! Bullies hate it when people stand up to them. They hate being embarrassed. Your number one is your safety. Be safe. Never see him without another adult present. Don't give in to his bullying. Make notes on everything he has done and said so far and then keep up the notes. Talk to him only through your lawyer until things are settled. When he is court ordered to pay child support, he will either do it, or leave the state to evade paying. (That's a mixed blessing.) Neill Hi Mati,

Hash! Bullies hate it when people stand up to them. They hate being embarrassed. Your number one is your safety. Be safe. Never see him without another adult present. Don’t give in to his bullying. Make notes on everything he has done and said so far and then keep up the notes. Talk to him only through your lawyer until things are settled. When he is court ordered to pay child support, he will either do it, or leave the state to evade paying. (That’s a mixed blessing.) Neill

]]> By: Dr. Neill Neill http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence-awareness/comment-page-1/#comment-100943 Dr. Neill Neill Wed, 22 Oct 2008 13:12:59 +0000 http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence/#comment-100943 Hash! Bullies hate it when people stand up to them. They hate being embarrassed. Your number one is your safety. Be safe. Never see him without another adult present. Don't give in to his bullying. Make notes on everything he has done and said so far and then keep up the notes. Talk to him only through your lawyer until things are settled. When he is court ordered to pay child support, he will either do it, or leave the state to evade paying. (That's a mixed blessing.) Hash! Bullies hate it when people stand up to them. They hate being embarrassed. Your number one is your safety. Be safe. Never see him without another adult present. Don’t give in to his bullying. Make notes on everything he has done and said so far and then keep up the notes. Talk to him only through your lawyer until things are settled. When he is court ordered to pay child support, he will either do it, or leave the state to evade paying. (That’s a mixed blessing.)

]]> By: Mati http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence-awareness/comment-page-1/#comment-100937 Mati Wed, 22 Oct 2008 03:56:05 +0000 http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence/#comment-100937 So now I have left him and spent a year without child support, having been threatened with his taking custody and dragging out families and friends through a horrific court battle. I have told him that he will start paying child support and now am living in fear of the retaliation of standing up for myself and my child. WHAT NOW? So now I have left him and spent a year without child support, having been threatened with his taking custody and dragging out families and friends through a horrific court battle. I have told him that he will start paying child support and now am living in fear of the retaliation of standing up for myself and my child. WHAT NOW?

]]> By: stephanie http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence-awareness/comment-page-1/#comment-100920 stephanie Mon, 20 Oct 2008 19:12:15 +0000 http://www.neillneill.com/130/domestic-abuse-and-violence/#comment-100920 Domestic abuse can have many forms. Woman are very good at excusing their partner's behaviour to maintain the peace. We even talk ourselves out of what is really going on. We tell ourselves lies and then live according to them knowing all the while that something is very wrong. Domestic abuse can have many forms. Woman are very good at excusing their partner’s behaviour to maintain the peace. We even talk ourselves out of what is really going on. We tell ourselves lies and then live according to them knowing all the while that something is very wrong.

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