You have been married and under the same roof for 27 years. For most of that time things have been good, but the last few years have been punctuated with verbal attacks, blaming, criticizing and justifying on both sides. How do you go about rebuilding your marriage?
You now have separate bedrooms and sometimes go for days without interacting. The underlying atmosphere is so thick with resentment you could cut it with a knife.
Neither of you wants the marriage to end, but when you interact, the sparks fly. Your friends say divorce is the only answer.
What should you do to rebuild your marriage?