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Posted by Dr. Neill Neill
People still resort to infidelity as the excuse, often unconscious, to end a difficult relationship. Many couples, however, choose to stay together after one or both has been unfaithful. So the big question I invite you to ponder is this: can a committed relationship fully recover after infidelity, without long-term costs?
Categories: Marriage
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Tags: adultery, affair, committed relationship, infidelity, Marriage, relationships
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Posted by Dr. Neill Neill
What has changed so dramatically in the last few years is the number of men and women who enter committed relationships after meeting their partner online.
Statistics: The latest figures are that 20 million people per month are engaging in online dating. About 70% of people surveyed said they would use an online dating service to find their partner if they were looking for a relationship. And in a large-scale survey 17% of couples married from 2007 to early 2010 said they had met online.
Categories: Marriage
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Tags: Marriage, marriage relationship, online dating, relationships
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Posted by Dr. Neill Neill
Life can sneak up on you, and then one day one of you realizes you feel the loneliest you have ever felt. Who among us, except the very young, has not been in that dark place at some time or other? This leads to the question, is it possible to live your lives in such a way that you can avoid loneliness in a marriage relationship?
Categories: Marriage
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Tags: alcohol, feeling alone, loneliness, lonely, Marriage, marriage relationship, relationship
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Posted by Dr. Neill Neill
When you bond with and commit to a long-term marriage relationship with another human being, you usually start from a place of peace. Both of you are accepted and loved and are interested in the interests, activities and passions of the other. There may be a lot going on, but your relationship is one of peace…20 years…Are you holding back from each other to keep the peace? These are signs, not of peace, but of a truce, a cease-fire…the truce is not a happy place. It may be temporarily practical, but seldom more than an uneasy peace.
Categories: Marriage
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Tags: long term relationship, Marriage, marriage advice, marriage relationship, peace
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Posted by Dr. Neill Neill
There are two kinds of control over other people: wisdom-based control and fear-based control. The most obvious example of wisdom-based control is in child rearing. You are in total control of your infant child. You help your child grow up healthy and confident by controlling their learning environment. You teach through words and example and you often say no…then there is fear-based control…
Categories: Marriage, Parenting, Self Growth
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Tags: child rearing, controlling, management, Marriage, relationships
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