Neill Neill, Ph.D.
A lot of difficulties and stresses in marriage and other relationships arise from underdeveloped personal boundaries. But to understand this, we need to make sure we’re on the same page as to the meaning of the term "boundaries."
Some confuse "putting up a wall" with "maintaining good personal boundaries." A wall is a solid structure that keeps you inside and keeps everyone else out. I’m sure you’ve seen it happen that a family member will hear nothing you have to say and will reveal nothing of their thoughts or feelings to you. They "put up a wall." Have you ever been there yourself?
Click Here to Read More
Search Tags: healthy boundaries marriage Neill Neill personal boundaries poor boundaries relationships
by Dr. Neill Neill
The day after my last post, Parenting and Grieving , my son died. Richard slipped into a coma a few hours after our final goodbyes and died within a couple of days. Two days later we held a funeral service for him in his church as he wanted.
When it was all over, I desperately needed to be home, so I caught a flight the next day. Seven more days have passed.
Click Here to Read More
Search Tags: appreciation death of a son grief grieving parenting hospice mortality parents worst nightmare sadness
Dr. Neill Neill
On October 23 I posted A Hard Personal Lesson in Acceptance , in which I explained that my son Richard is dying and I’m getting a difficult lesson.
Two weeks have passed and I have spent the last two days with Richard. He requires a lot more pain medication now. He has deteriorated considerably in the past month. He was frail but mentally sharp a month ago. Yesterday he was fragile, but mentally absent much of the time. Fortunately, the absences were punctuated by periods of lucidity.
Click Here to Read More
Search Tags: acceptance dealing with loss death of a child grieving parenting saying goodbye trauma
