• Are you feeling lonely and disconnected in your relationship with an alcoholic partner?
  • Is it possible you have an alcohol problem yourself?
  • Are you facing a possible divorce?

Mentoring and Coaching for Capable People Who Want More out of their Relationships and their Lives


Neill06.jpgDr. Neill Neill

631 Ashcroft Place

Parksville, B.C., Canada   V9P 0E1

(250) 586-8684

Focus of Work

My principal focus is on you in the present, as you create a better future for yourself. Good mentoring makes it happen faster and with fewer painful detours.

My mission is to help you be more self-directed and live a happier, more fulfilling life. My business is mentoring capable women and men who feel stuck.

My clients report their regaining hope and clarity of thought through my mentoring. Many have gained new insights and have grown in consciousness and spirituality. Some have improved in physical health as they shifted their focus in more positive directions.

Women living with alcohol-abusing spouses have emerged from feeling hopelessly stuck and codependent to feeling empowered to make choices. With their own personal changes have come changes in their spouses or ex-spouses, sometimes after many years of heavy drinking.


I bring to my coaching practice a range of experience in psychological counseling, addiction, life coaching, university teaching, business and a lot of living.

Perhaps more importantly, I am a happy, positive person in a fulfilling 38-year relationship with my artist wife, Eileen. My positive outlook is in spite of, as a child, having experienced abduction, sexual abuse, torture, poverty and losing my father in an air crash and my mother in a car crash. My sense of well-being is also in spite of, as an adult, having experienced two divorces, being separated from my children, two brothers dying, business failure and bankruptcy, three of my adult children dying (All three had a history substance abuse,) and more recently, a major stroke and heart attack. I do know how to bounce back and I do know the difference between triumph and tragedy.

Office Hours

All coaching is by appointment, usually on daytime weekdays, Pacific time. Most coaching is by telephone or Skype video.

Cost of Service

The cost of services depend very much on what level of results you want and expect. My fees may be higher than those of some other coaches, but in the end, you may agree you saved money by choosing to work with me.

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Do contact me by telephone or email to discuss whether my coaching could help you meet your needs.

Contact Dr. Neill

With my warmest regards,

Dr. Neill Neill
631 Ashcroft Place
British Columbia
V9P 0E1


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Dr. Neill Neill retired his psychology practice at the end of 2013. He maintains an active coaching practice via telephone or Skype with select clients dealing with alcoholic husbands or ex-husbands. Check out his book, Living with a Functioning Alcoholic: A Woman's Survival Guide.